posted by pierce on Sep 3

My partner Lana is from the midwest and thus uses some terminology,cliches,sayings that are different than some I’ve grown up with coming from the east coast.One of my favorites is when she calmly states that this person is a pity. Please allow me to expound on this.Positive thoughts beget positive results.Negative thoughts beget negative results.I lean towards the former and so does my partner.Some people we meet and are forced to interact with are “Pities”.These are people that measure their lives by telling people about the bad stuff that happened to them or complaining and whining about their horrible lives and they basically ‘piss in your ears’ thus filling you with this negative energy.We need to no longer tolerate “pities” because they cause disharmony,unrest,stress,and depression.”Pities” are cancerous and must be shunned.I firmly believe that when a door shuts or an opportunity ends if we keep an open mind and an open heart more opportunities will appear.Yet if we are busy crying and whining about our lot in life we will miss seeing the new doors and windows opening up for us.This economic “pity” we are now embroiled in abounds with opportunities to think outside the box.I’ve already gone back to college to take courses that will further my growth and development.My partner,Lana is doing the same.Yes, people have bad days and friends let them vent infrequently but for the most part friends should be supportive and trade positive thoughts.Stop feeding the “pities”.Stop letting them bring you down to their level of unhappiness.Every day is a blessing! Get out and exercise,smile,laugh,love,do not dwell on the negatives and you might find danger lurks but happiness abounds.

                                                                                      Love,

                                                                                     Pierce

P.S. “Lose the PITIES”